Couples Oriented Sex Guides For Valentine’s Day
Looking to boost your sexual know-how this Valentine’s Day? Maybe Valentine’s Day is the opportunity you’ve been looking for to deepen your sexual connection with your partner. Or maybe you’re looking for a few ideas to make Valentine’s Day sex hilarious and unforgettable. From tips and techniques to delving deep into each other’s erotic psyches, make this Valentine’s Day present one that will last all year round.
I Dare You
Not strictly speaking a book, but a sex gift that belongs on everyone’s Valentine’s wish list. Each of the 30 cards in this beautifully produced box contain a suggested “seduction” crafted by Susie Bright to maximize possibilities and inspire exploration and sexual creativity. Each seduction opens up a world of sexual possibility and a thousand sexual conversations, without judgment or pedantry. Risqué, respectful, and ultimately just a rollicking good time, I Dare You is perfect for couples of all stripes who want to expand their sexual horizons and have hot fun sex while they’re doing it.
The Guide To Doing Me
A funny and smart book for both self and other exploration. The Guide to Doing Me is a fill-in-the-blanks book that asks you all sorts of questions about what you like, how you like it, where you like it, etc… There are pages for you and pages for a partner. Fill it out, and leave it somewhere to be found. It’s no substitute for actually talking (or communicating non-verbally) but it’s a fun conversation starter and a darn cute idea.
Seal It With A Kiss
Having instructed us well in the arts of oral sex, sex toy use, watching porn, and reading erotica, author Violet Blue turns her focus and considerable talents to the art of the kiss. If your partner needs this book, giving it on Valentine’s Day may not be the best idea, but most of us could benefit from keeping an open mind and adventurous spirit when it comes to changing up our kissing routine. When it comes to exploring any new sexual activity, Blue is an encouraging guide and tireless cheerleader.
Urban Tantra
Finally, the book is for people who want to learn about Tantric sex but can’t find the time! Urban Tantra, by Barbara Carrellas, offers an urban spin on the spiritual practice of Tantric sex. Acknowledging the realities of a stressful life in the West, Carrellas has adapted a Tantric program that is easy to follow and practical to execute. With simple step by step instructions and refreshingly gender neutral and pansexual language, this book focuses on such topics as erotic awakening massage, 20-minute Tantra, breath and energy orgasms, as well as Tantric power play. One breath in, one breath out. Enjoy!
The Guide To Getting It On
Give yourself and your lover a Valentine’s Day gift that promises more than just one night of great sex. The Guide to Getting It On is a must for every sexual enthusiast’s book shelf. Thoroughly researched, and written in an engaging style the book covers almost every conceivable sexual topic that couples want to know about. Over 800 pages of fun, accurate, and accessible sex information, advice, and know-how, it’s a book you can read together in bed, or separately and surprise each other with your newly acquired sex smarts.
Erotic Role Play: A Guide for Couples
Violet Blue’s newest guide for couples is available for easy (and inexpensive!) download to your laptop, Palm, Treo, iPhone, or PDAs. Violet gets right down to business in this guide, taking the reader through the steps of thinking about, talking about, and setting up for erotic role play with a partner. She’s a paitent but never condescending teacher and offers everything from general rules to detailed scenarios depending on what you’re looking for. As a bonus, we get some erotic stories from Violet’s favorite writers. I’m such a fan of paper books, but I can’t imagine my sex library without Erotic Role Play in it.
Sex Mix
I don’t usually recommend novelty sex books. There isn’t a lot of depth and the generalizations usually get in the way for me. But I know dozens of couples who loved this one, and I have to admit that the design is clever. Like those old mix-and-match books, Sex Mix pages are cut horizontally in two, one side offering ideas on sex positions and the other on sexual techniques. Flip through the pages and randomly stop at any point and you have two new ideas to test out in the bedroom.
The Multi-Orgasmic Couple
Those looking to inject a little spiritualism in their sex this Valentine’s Day should check out The Multi-Orgasmic Couple. Easy to read style, with lots of homework exercises and practical tips, this Taoist approach feels a little less heavy handed than some of the Tantric sex books. I’m not sure I can fully get behind the concept of never ejaculating again (to understand it, you have to read the book), but I appreciated the new ideas and the straightforward approach.
The Good Vibrations Guide To Sex
If you don’t already own this book, put it on your Valentine’s Day wish list. It’s been called the Joy of Sex for the 21st century, and with good reason. This is a book I’ve read cover to cover, and I still keep it by my desk (and bed) for easy reference. From vibrators and blowjob robots to dirty talk and cybersex, Anne Semans and Cathy Winks set the standard for fun, nonjudgmental sex manuals and The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex continues to be a must read for all sexual adventurers.
Erotic Massage: Touch Of Love
Without a doubt, this is the best and easiest to follow book on erotic massage. Written by Kenneth Ray Stubbs and illustrated with over 100 easy to follow drawings that demonstrate massage technique, Erotic Massage covers instruction on full body massage including genital massage drawing on Stubbs decades of experience as a teacher and practitioner.
Adventurous Couples Guide To Sex Toys
Violet Blue strikes again (in all the best ways) with this guide to sex toys for adventurous couples. No one approaches a sex topic like Violet: She is a sexual cheerleader who manages to engage, make you think, and show you why sexual exploration, on your own terms, is worth the effort. The guide concisely covers everything from vibrators and dildos to how to talk about toys with your partner, and how to use them. She also covers newer sex toy topics including sex machines, online sex for two, luxury sex toys, and sex furniture.
