I’ve done a post on this before but it was based more on fundamentals; I’ve decided it would be beneficial to explore the more superficial aspects of the texting game. Be warned however, texting is a myopic approach to attraction. If you do not sustain a relationship with face to face game or other forms of power play, you will still fail miserably.
How to Use Mirroring to Enhance Connection and Attraction
Mirroring – Refers to imitating another person to build attraction. Unfortunately, it’s one of the more under-discussed aspects of the game, which eventually led to a legion of men bent on copying women word for word, posture for posture. That’s not how it’s done. When used effectively, it is only an imitation of small yet noticeable “gimmicks” that sub-communicate rapport and attraction with a girl. In layman terms, that means you should manipulate her “catch-phrases”. Everyone has a unique set of phrases that they use repeatedly, you need to recognize hers and use them in your texts. Imitate the small and unique idiosyncrasies of her conversation style. The only exception being, never use too many smileys or say “lol’ too many times even if she does so herself.
How to Spark Jealousy Sparingly for Relationship Enhancement
Once in a blue moon, send her a text that was “meant for another girl”. Unless you want to intentionally sabotage your relationship, do so with a sense of plausible deniability. Don’t write “let’s bang it out in the garage”, a simple “LMFAO yesss” will do. Science has proven that women invariably respond to jealousy, often in positive ways when used spatially. She will respond with a question mark, to which you will respond “oh sorry that was meant for someone else”. She’ll ask who, to which you reply “just a friend from work”. After she inquires further, you can reveal that it was indeed a female contact. Don’t make the text flirtatious, overtly communicating caddishness has a nasty tendency to backfire. By just saying something like “HAHAHA noooo wayyy” you’ll accomplish the same task at hand. Luckily, women have an uncanny ability to rationalize all of their fears.
*Disclaimer to the nice guys reading this: Before you start complaining about how “this is a manipulative procedure and an abomination to mankind”, girls do it all the time. Literally, ALL the time. They just have it more ingrained into their genetic scripts so where guys have to calculate their use of social dynamics, girls do it subconsciously. The only exception among men being jerks who have been exposed to early success with women.
How to Time Your Texts for Increased Value and Success
Always respond in 1.5x – 2x the amount of time she took to respond to your last text (if you plan on responding at all). As all men are at first boggled by the efficiency through which game can improve relationships, you will be boggled by how well this rule can improve your chances at closing after the initial k-close. Most guys fuck it up AFTER number / k-closing by texting or calling too desperately. If you betray your sense of aloofness by withdrawing patience, you’ll find yourself on very good terms with your left palm.
