I asked a woman out who I have known for some time already, and got turned down. We both talk like we’ve known each other for a long time. She can get very personal with me. She remembers a lot of the things I tell her and constantly shows a genuine curiosity about me.
All of which I picked up on these signs:
- Nervousness (fidgety, no eye contact, mumbling responses to my answers)
- I caught her staring at me at a few times from a distance
- It’s like she tries to make things really casual between us in person
I do keep away and keep my cool, but she’s always surprising me with something to get me thinking.
Maintain a friendship with women who wants you
You have to remember that girls are crafty. To you, it may seem like she is really interested, but girls look at everything and make a mental note of what they see. Now, you know that she likes you, that’s a given, whether she likes you as a friend or a potential boyfriend, she likes you, that’s good.
You seem to believe that she might like you more than a friend. But stop thinking that right now, this is crucial. Just think that the girls like you, no more, no less. If you think that she likes you more than a friend you start to fantasize about the two of you being together and you start to look at the harmless affection she gives you into something more, you read too much into it.
Now I’m not saying to forget about the girl, but just don’t get too excited. This is to protect you from getting hurt.
How do I find out if a woman is really attracted to me?
Now that that’s out of the way you’re probably thinking, “Well what about the boyfriend?”. Well, that’s easy. You feel that their relationship is a little rocky, so what you do is present yourself to her, tell her what you feel.
Then the ball will be in her court. Don’t try to push things with this girl, because this would be stepping on the other guy’s toes, and you don’t want that, and it will probably come back at you worse.
How do I start a casual conversation with a girl that I have a crush on?
My assessment is she does like you but because she is under pressure to do well in her personal and business life. That’s the reason she has not been able to give you the attention that she would want to. I’m sure that once her personal issues are sorted out and the pressure is off that she will make her feelings known to you. She sounds like a caring and considerate person and would probably not willingly brush you off without good reason.
Note however that cultures, which normally put a tremendous amount of pressure on individuals to perform well scholastically, can sometimes be quite fastidious in regards to the type of person that they want to date.
