You may want to consider talking to yourself and get the sensual feeling back. This is essential especially when you are trying to get back into the active sexual life that you and your partner have been enjoying in the past. You can do this by being comfortable in bed with your wife or husband. Try to have as much body contact as possible during sleep and more when you are awake in bed. Try also talk sexy when in bed to entice the feeling of sensuality within you.
Do not bother yourself as to who makes the first move. If you feel like having sex with your partner, then do not hinder yourself from doing it. Let him or her feel that you feel that way and you feel the need to do that with him or her. It always pays to be aggressive when it is called for. Halting any feeling or emotion related to sex will not help you and your relations with your partner.
More Foreplay Whenever Possible
In trying to entice your partner to have sex, telling him or her through foreplay would be the best thing to do. You would be able to make your partner feel that you want to have sex and you are giving him or her the message in a very arousing way. Kissing and hugging are basic foreplay techniques but you can explore more ways like massaging and even oral sex for a more arousing foreplay. It would also be best to do foreplay whenever possible.
“Cheap shots” like touching her breast in places not normally done or massaging his back in a sensual way would benefit your feeling of trying to light the fire in your sexual life again. No matter how much you love the person, it is not enough to give this kind of performance during sexual activities. It is more connected with trying to bring up the feeling of sensuality and sexual drives to a level that it would be very good to have sex with your partner.
Foreplay is like the preliminary events or much like a preview of the things to come during your sexual act. In relation to this if you would foreplay the right way, this would greatly boost both of your libido levels during your actual sex. This constitutes prolonged time and energy during your sexual activities.
Variation Is Fun
Do you feel like the act of having sex with your partner is becoming boring? Well, what you need to do is to just change the way you do it. If you are doing it regularly in bed, then try to do it on the couch or in the bathroom.
Do you have sex with the lights open every time? Then you can try to mix things up by using scented candles or turning the lights off completely. A mere change in ambiance and location will greatly aid your sexual drives and raise your feeling in having sex with your partner.
Bringing something new to the act will make you feel like this is the first time to have sex or just even bring the same feeling the first time you made love with your partner. You can also try to learn many positions when doing the act. In this way you would be able to maximize the time and give yourself the overall satisfaction of having sex with your partner. You can also associate it as bringing a whole new experience to the act and in turn this would be very beneficial to both of you in the future and to the many sexual activities that you will do.
