Nice guys always finish last when it comes to the dating game? Well you see nice guys are simply too predictable and there is nothing left to know about them. Whereas in the case of bad boys they never disclose too much and there is always an aspect of mystery about them which women love. The key here is to maintain a level of mystery.
- Be confident and act naturally: Women get attracted to guys who are confident in nature and comfortable with them. You must like being around yourself before others will. Don’t be supercilious, but be confident in your skills and strengths.
- Being with another woman: Women are more curious about those men whom they find with another woman. It ensures them that he in fact likes women and that ís attractive to them.
- Eye contact is a must: Most men do not look into women’s eyes. They talk as if they know where she is. It is not at all attractive. It is a very basic thing that women like men looking into their eyes. It doesn’t mean that you have to undress a woman with your looks.
- Make use of your sense of humor: Women like to laugh. It helps if you are naturally funny and witty. It makes it easy and comfortable to approach you. But, you don’t have to be a clown. Don’t take things too seriously. Laugh with an ease. Just be careful of trying too hard to be funny or tell rough and ready jokes. Remember, you are trying to appeal to women, not men.
- Don’t try to “buy” her: If you buy her a drink, she is compelled to say thank you and there it ends. If she accepts the drink, the polite thing for her to do would be to spend a little time talking to you, but that’s all. If you are happy with that, well – you may buy her a drink. On the other hand, if a woman takes the drink and walks away, let her go. There is no fun spending time with such a lady.
- Stand out from the crowd: Allow the unique facets of your personality to shine through, whether it’s your style of clothing or the way you express yourself. Embrace your accent or cultural background instead of concealing it. Women are often captivated by men who hail from diverse cultures or possess distinctive qualities. Strive to make a memorable impression that piques women’s curiosity and encourages them to want to discover more about you.
- Talk Less & listen more: Don’t try to impress a woman by bragging about your GPA at Harvard, or the fact that you are a CEO of a transnational company. You’ll get precisely the kind of woman who is only into you for your achievements and possessions. Instead, ask questions and listen for the answers. Give your opinions. Get to know the woman and also let her get to know you.
- Know her interests: Let her talk about what she’s crazy about. If you are not into it, you can say that you are not too familiar with it. But, appreciate her interests. Ask her more about it. As she is at-home in it, she will love to talk more about it fluently and that makes her feel commendable and more importantly a man who likes to know about it and listens to it.
You don’t need a guitar, rock-hard abs, or even a full head of hair to make a great impression on a woman. These above little things make much of a difference.
