Some guys call it “The most powerful seduction technique”.
Learning to bring up sex in a conversation (subtlety and directly) is like adding Death Star to your Game. With full mastery, a girl will anchor your presence to sex. The effect of this is mind-boggling. Seduction becomes so easy you’ll start doubting whether or not you have Jedi Powers. If your girlfriend anchors your presence to sex, you will give her ecstatic, all-consuming orgasms that make her entire body convulse EVERY single time you guys go to bed.
First thing you need to understand is the difference between male / female sexuality. Guys focus much more on Overt sexual communication (visuals, direct sexual encounters, etc). Women focus on Covert sexual communication i.e; contextualized encounters, double meanings, subtle hints, etc. Remember this analogy for the rest of your life: Playboy magazines are to men what romance novels are to women.
Sexuality determines whether a woman places you in the friend category or the boyfriend category. It is the KEY DEFINING secret of the Jerk. Where the Nice Guy is timid, the Jerk openly embraces his sexuality. Learning to give off a sexual vibe will determine how well you are going to know the inside of your palms for the rest of your life.
- Innuendos: You can turn almost any phrase into something sexual
- Bring it up directly: Ask her where her favorite place is. You need to have a decent level of game to do this + she already needs to know you’re an Alpha.
- Body language / Tone of voice: You don’t always need to verbally talk about sex.
- Anchoring: Set up an external anchor for sex. Whether it’s cologne, chocolate, or foot massages. Anchoring has an unbelievable Mindfuck effect.
- Make a joke about it: Her: “How did you like that movie?” / You: “It sucked, I’ve seen pornos with better plots” (establish frame and escalate from here)
- Be thinking about sex yourself: Not that I believe in some voodoo spiritual sex transfer type of thing, but your own sexual energy does come off in regular conversations. Noticed this first with myself, women instantly read a sexual vibe from guys who have it. (Besides women who subconsciously think they have a higher status than you, like taller women or women who date a guy more Alpha than you, this puts you in either the “little brother” dynamic or makes you a weird creeper if you try and game them).
- Just whip it out: Keep one thing in mind. Anchoring sex works the same as any NLP rule. It MUST be intermittent / specific. If you try to over-game, you’ll simply activate her anti-slut defense or risk desensitizing her to your sexuality (the former destroys rapport, the latter destroys attraction).
