The chauvinistic justifications of any brainwashed AFC for getting too little attention from his girlfriend will have even the most conditioned psychoanalysts utterly baffled.
- “She’s not used to showing affection”
- “She doesn’t like PDA”
- “She doesn’t have time to talk that often”
- “She’s just different”
- “She’s not used to showing affection”
- “She’s just stressed out right now”
- “She has too much stuff on her hands right now”
- “She’s having family issues”
Shut the fuck up.
If you sense a lack of devotion from your girlfriend, make no mistake, it is caused by a lack of interest / attraction. If you start making rationalizations to save your ego from getting nuked, prepare to get stuck knee-deep in bullshit. Focus on interest level. Focus on interest level. Focus on interest level. Eat it.
Competitive Anxiety
The most fundamental pillar of attraction in a relationship. If ever your girlfriend adopts the mentality that she is the only source of intimacy you have access to or desire, a huge lack of physical desire and attention will ensue. Both people in a relationship should, at all times, feel the constant pressure of a competitive sexual market. If you’re a guy, you already know how competitive anxiety drives people crazy. Men in relationships face the trivialities of competition much more often than girls (even semi good looking girlfriends will get hit on more often by other guys than the crème de la crop of boyfriends). Keep in mind that competitive anxiety should never be induced overtly.
Stability Fucks Things Up
Women desire financial stability, familial stability, and academic stability among other things, but NOT sexual / emotional stability. They do NOT want to know exactly what time you’re going to call them every day, where you guys are going to eat every Sunday, or how all of your anniversaries are going to be spent. Despite your girlfriend’s incessant nagging about maintaining routines, women ABHOR predictability. If your relationship occasionally catches on fire from emotional turmoil, let it burn in passion.
Never NEED Attention
Never, ever, complain about wanting more affection. Attempt to communicate less than she does. For every 3 texts that you get, send 2. For every 5 dates that she plans, plan 3. Your laconic ways will unconsciously reinforce your dominance, higher social value, and help maintain a frame of challenge.
The “Reverse” Method Never Works
AFCs often try to take the opposite approach; they bombard their girlfriends with attention, gifts, and unyielding loyalty hoping that she may reciprocate the emotional back rubbing. This never, ever, ever works in their favor. Many aspects of relationships are counter-intuitive.
