If you want to impress a woman, you have come to the right place. Taking the steps to impress a woman is an important part of attraction. When a woman is impressed by a man, it sets the seeds for real attraction.
Many guys try to attract women by buying them things. Watches, jewelry, even flowers and chocolates. While on a few occasions a small gift is expected and perhaps appreciated, buying things is never really “impressive”. You cannot buy her love and respect. You have to earn it.
If you do not know how to get a woman to notice you it can be very frustrating. There is no reason that you should humiliate and embarrass yourself ever again. Let’s now go on to talk about how to impress a woman.
Know the woman you are trying to impress
The first thing that you need to figure out is what kind of woman you are looking for. If you go out desperate just hoping that any woman will want you this alone is going to lower your chances of being able to impress a woman. Women don’t want a guy that is desperate and will date any woman because they want to know why you like them and why you want to be with them.
What you need to do is make a list of the things that you would like to see in a woman. Do you want a woman that is a college graduate? Do you want a woman who is interested in sports? Do you want a woman with or without kids? All of these things are important. When you have these things written down you are going to be taking this thought process seriously and will be less likely to settle for just anyone.
After you have decided what kind of woman you are interested in it is time that you go out and find that woman. When you go out to look for that woman you need to make sure that you are going to the right place. Not all types of women are going to be in the same place. You should look for your type of girl in a place that they would naturally enjoy.
If you want a girl that is interested in sports, go to some sporting events. If you want a girl that goes to church – go to church! It is really simple to find the type of girl that you want once you figure out where she likes to hang out.
This also means making a snap judgement about what the WOMAN is looking for in a guy. You do not want to adjust your whole personality and demeanor to impress the woman, but if you know there is something she might be looking for in a guy you can make sure she gets it. This is just understanding the different types of women.
Look her in the eye
This shows confidence. It shows you are interested in her. It is guaranteed to be a big positive “check mark” in the girl’s head for “things that impress her” about you. Women may want you to notice the way they look, but they do not want to see you staring at their boobs and they certainly do not want to see you looking at other women or not paying attention. Make and hold eye contact. It is a sure way to impress a woman.
Be chivalrous
Open the door for her, pull out her chair, take her coat for her. All of the things guys do in the old 50′s movies. It will be noticed and show that you have class. You do not need (or even want) to follow the girl around like a puppy dog, but treating every girl with class and charm will be noticed and will impress her.
Turn off the Phone
To be extra impressive make sure she knows about it (with a little subtlety). Make a point of turning it off because, “what she has to say is important” and you do not want to miss it. After being with guys who will talk incessantly on their phones and ignore her, this will impress her greatly.
Be Well Groomed
You do not have to look like you stepped off the pages of a male fashion magazine. But having a decent level of personal hygiene, and looking well groomed is important. Having a sense of style is also important. Your clothes should also represent YOU. Unless you are a guy who understands style, try to get a female friend to shop for you or a female relative of the “right” age. Get clothes that are stylish, not fadish, and work for YOU.
Ask her questions
This doesn’t mean give her the third degree, but ask questions to get her talking about herself. Try to find her passions. Once you get her talking about things she is passionate about, you have gone a LONG way toward impressing her, as well as giving yourself things to talk about to keep the conversation flowing.
Really listen to her
Girls can tell when a guy is not really listening. You may think you are fooling her. But you are not. Try to use active listening to get her talking and keep her talking.
Compliment her
If you really want to impress a woman, compliment her. There are two important aspects of this. First off is that you need to be sincere. The second is that you should compliment her on something SHE has control over. Don’s just say she is “beautiful”. She was probably born that way and she knows it. Be specific and compliment her on things she controls.
Don’t say, “your hair looks great” say “that style you use makes you look great”.
Don’t say “you look great” say “that dress really compliments your figure”.
Ask for her opinion/advice
One way men and women are REALLY different is with advice. When a woman talks about a problem she wants sympathy. Guys want solutions. Guys will give women solutions to any problem they hear and will rarely talk with women about their problems. We simply do not want sympathy, and the subtext is, “what good advice could she give me?”
That is the reason this one is powerful.
If you directly ask for her opinion or advice on a topic you will shock her. Few guys have probably ever asked her opinion. It shows you respect her and this will greatly impress her.
Be funny, but don’t be crude
Girls want to have a good time. They want to laugh. Keeping the mood light and fun will impress her. The one warning here is that crude jokes that may be a hit with guy friends really will not work with her. Keep her laughing but work clean.
Since you know what you want in a woman you should be confident when you go after this woman. Confidence is one of the sexiest qualities in a man. You should practice confidence until you actually become confident. It is one of those kinds of fake it until you make it type deals.
When you walk into a room you shouldn’t look like a scared deer. When you walk into a room you should survey the situation and then decide what you want to do and where you want to do.
One of the best things you can do to make yourself look more confident is simply improve your posture. Put your shoulders back, put your chin up and puff your chest out just a little bit. Make sure that you don’t look uncomfortable though.
When you speak to a woman one of the best ways to impress her is to actually listen and be interested in what she is speaking about. You should allow her to speak about her passions and get more and more connected with you. This will make it easier for you to know how to impress her and have success with women.
The best way to impress a woman is to understand those subtle things that she is irresistibly attracted to. These few simple rules of attraction can get her instantly and powerfully drawn to you.
